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Month: February 2009

Dancin’ all night long

I guess it’s a big deal because I only go out dancing once or twice a year. Last night was the annual Dukes of Drag takeover of Meow Mix, a monthly party for girls at Sala Rosa. The show was great, as usual and it will go on again on March 13th at Cafe Cleopatre on Saint-Laurent. I had planned to bring a few people but they all had previous engagements. Lloyd Jr. is on a Plane to Bali and Mon Pou (The Perfect Stranger) had a going away party for his roommate so I hung out and danced with my usual motley crew of Unholy Army gals. I don’t actually need to make arrangements, I seem to be randomly running into everyone I want or need to see these days anyway.

But I don’t feel like writing about the blessings of my life right now. I’m just living my life and enjoying it. It seems like others have the Instamatic and are documenting it too.

How Things Change

I just adore this video. The only boy I care to watch on Youtube talking about himself is Johnny Durham and if I ever make videos I’m totally going overexposed!

I had so much sushi for lunch. I left with Mr. P at just about noon and got back home at 3pm. That’s all you can eat, and I really mean sushi ;P But it was a really nice hug for the soul and when I got home the new young one was waiting for me. I should get him a blog nickname because he seems like a keeper. He helped me move a bunch of stuff from my ex’s house last week and he lives right next to Mr. P’s. It’s convenient because I need someone to help me sell the contents of Mr. P’s house so I might as well show the young one how to bag, tag and sell stuff on eBay. So we had a nice little social time in my living room full of book piles and they got to know each other outside of a loud club.

I used to have relationships configured into an asterisk (*) with me as the center point. There was no constant connection between the guys I dated. But now, with Web 2.0, everyone I see can easily see who else I am socializing with and it is changing the dynamics. I am developing relationships that end up configured in a pentagram. But I sincerely believe that there are men around me who would get along with each other very well. And while it’s fun to ideate and scheme with another person, it will be even more fun to do it with two or three…

So I got lots of virtual and in person cuddles today and lots of reassurance on long term commitment and that really warms me up. Now let’s hope I don’t meet my nemesis on the way to school and fall down again… Ouch!

Three Weeks Later

I’m old now, I should be more aware of how I deal with stuff. I noticed that when something bad happens, I am always the one that manages everyone until they feel better. And then it’s my turn to sit down and cry. But by then everyone else has moved on and I feel all alone. And it’s been like this for a few days now.

I am a very strict manager of drama and I never want to involve anyone else into it espescially if it CAN be contained and managed discreetly. And I am very proud to have been on top of all this drama for the past three weeks in a way that should prevent any more drama from popping up out of left field.

But I need a hug. SO I’ve scheduled myself ten, just to make sure it sticks.

All that being said, I am so looking forward to my upcoming event because it is coming together so well and it is very fun to have so many people write to me to tell me how much they are looking forward to meet M0j0D4ddy or see him again. I have people signing up AGAIN for the same classes they took 2 years ago! However since he is a constant student of martial arts his classes evolve with the latest techniques and all his students should continue to learn new skills every time around.

On Saturday I am going to see HeShe Kisses with Dukes of Drag at Sala Rossa (4848 St-Laurent) It’s the show of the year and they always make me laugh until I cry! I really want to go with LadyC. I mean I’ve been ‘dating’ her man and we haven’t even gone out together yet! Let’s make it fair!!

Busy Busy as a Little Bee

I haven’t written much lately because I have been doing write-ups for my event coming up in March. It is coming together very well. While this endeavor started as an excuse to spend time with M0j0D4DDY, whom I’ve been getting to know over the past three months, it is evolving into a swanky weekend affair which will leave us with little time to spend together!

I can’t do things half-assed, so I am going all out and using so many skills acquired from twenty years of work background in tourism, Web and project management to make Spring Fever a super fun, well put together, classy and naughty event. Last time M0J0D4DDy was here, in 2006 during the OutGames, he did not teach his BDSM workshops only his Modern Self-Defense for Women class and the ever popular Elegant Pain Compliance workshop. These are all workshops topics that have not been taught in Montreal yet so I am REALLY looking forward to them! And when I say looking forward I mean REALLY looking forward because I know the content and M0J0D4DDy is NOT a wallflower, it is going to be HARDCORE.

And I will be teaching Cock Bondage.  I heard someone say a few weeks ago “So and so told me you are the foremost expert in the world on Cock Bondage!” Well, thank you but a better description would be that I am the ONLY person in the world who has cared to do this craftily and document the process. My upcoming workshop is really a 90-minute long comedic presentation created to make people wince and giggle. Oh, it is going to be informative alright but it goes way further than that. It is the start of an EPIC event. It will make a wonderful intro to the next workshop, the Erotic Humiliation one. I haven’t even given my darn class yet and I am already booked twice more in Toronto!

Henceforth I will be known as the chick who ties up guys’ junk…

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